Over the years I have come to learn countless lessons through different experiences I have encountered in my life. This is because lessons tend to teach us and direct us in the right path when we find ourselves in a crossroad. In today’s post I share with you the 7 best lessons I have learned so far in my life that have shaped and made me who i am today ’cause without them, to be honest I really don’t know where I would’ve been.1. Never Trust Easily:
Having to trust someone completely takes up a lot of nerve because it’s like you are placing a part of you in another individual’s grasp and it’s up to them either to keep it safe or to just take advantage of it by pondering it away. Speaking from experience the latter normally happens which leads to many quarrels and misunderstandings. Henceforth, making me to build an imaginary wall around me that it would take up a lot to let someone in. And yes, that concludes I have major trust issues since looks can be deceiving!
2. Never Expect Anything:
There’s a saying that goes by, “Expectations are the root of all heartaches” and I couldn’t agree more with it. This happens for instance, you have done a great deal of favors for another person, risking everything for that person, and knowing that you’ll go an extra mile for that person cause he/she means so much to you. While back in your head thinking that one day that individual might do the same by having your back when you’re facing a certain ordeal in life; and to a great disappointment that doesn’t happen and to make things worse that individual knew about your situation but chose not to come through. Thus, from this scenario we learn that it’s best to offer your help were you can without expecting anything in return from anyone since not everyone is blessed with a kind, giving heart like yours!
3. Trials and obstacles Are Inevitable In Life:
Life can never be all smooth for anyone let it be rich or poor people. Trials and obstacles occur to everyone especially when you least expect it. Thus, one thing is for sure don’t try to run away from them thinking that they won’t catch on to you, but instead try to face and overcome them with strength and courage.
4. Keep The Faith At All Times:
Faith. Such a small word but holds a powerful meaning.
During prayers, praying without having faith is useless because it requires you to believe in what you are praying for will come to pass.
Nevertheless, when time passes and what you prayed for hasn’t be fulfilled yet; then don’t give up, don’t despair but keep the faith within you. In due time The Almighty God will manifest his glory and blessings upon you when you least expect! Once again, keep the faith at all times!
5. Repay Evil With Good:
If someone has wronged you terribly don’t seek revenge but seek God and pray for his guidance during those hard times. Let God manifest his glory in you and trust me when the people who wronged you see that “glory glow” they’ll bite their tongues and be ashamed to even face you anymore!
6. Family Bond Is Everything:
Building a strong bond with your family members is very important because no matter what life throws at you, no matter what happens…they will always have your back! They will believe in you as much as you believe in them and that’s what counts.
7. Never Settle For Less:
Don’t accept mediocrity in your life. Keep your standards high ’cause you deserve nothing but the best.
I hope these lessons will help you in focusing on what truly matters and in the end live a healthy lifestyle.
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Wishing you a lovely weekend everyone!